Never Ever Confront The Cheater Until It’s Time
There a lot of guide to help you determine if your mate is cheating on you. Make a list of concerns to help guide you in your cheating spouse situation. Do not confront the cheating spouse. This will only cause them to clean up their act and make it more difficult for you to catch them.
You may not have enough proof to make your case. I would urge you to seek professional help. At the beginning of an affair the mate that is cheating is more attentive to his spouse. This is due to guilt that the cheater may be feeling at the time.